It’s either this: “Hmmm. I wonder if anyone knows how to reach Lorena Bobbitt?
Or a variation of this, from www.dontdatehimgirl.com founder Tasha Cunningham: “Too often men will cheat because there’s something he’s not getting in the bedroom. So you, as his wife or partner, are the one he turns to to fulfill those needs. Judging him when he tells you that he likes a certain sexual position because you don’t agree is a surefire way to drive him from your bedroom and into the arms of another woman.
“Remember, this is the man you love. There is nothing wrong with experimenting sexually with your mate to find out what pleases both of you. Men want to feel like they are in control and often, they use the opinions of women to validate how they feel about themselves. Make your man feel desired. Tell him often how handsome he is and do it frequently because if all he hears from you is criticism, he’ll feel bad about himself and surely find a woman who will sing his praises.
“Men in committed relationships are often bored by the routine of it all. They want the thrill of spontaneous sex, so make sure he has that with you and not another woman. Plan to surprise him with an afternoon lovemaking session, naughty text messages during work hours or sexy lingerie. These small things go a long way in keeping a marriage or relationship together.”
In other words, it’s the wife’s fault.